Wisdom does not come without some measure of cost, and is why we are advised to use our youth wisely. ⁽⁵⁴⁾  This is so that spirit readjustments may be made gradually from an early age, before the associated pain of readjustment in one's mature years becomes too great because of having neglected the opportunity of spirit readjustment during "the day of small things."

Those who undertake this new course of loyal faith in God through His Son are to expect ostracism. I do not believe this to be an endeavour that can be accomplished completely alone, as total ostracism would defeat many. We need the association of others in the faith to comfort one another, to share love and affection     sharing the fruits of coming out of "Babylon" among ourselves.

But given that most of what is written appears inclined toward men, what are the "signposts" for women?  Let me explain woman's place according to the Lord.  Only in the Lord is man "God's glory" and woman "man's glory." ⁽⁵⁵⁾  A woman may only be such in the absolute sense when her spouse willingly sacrifices former Godless dispositions of "Babylon" and struggles to become a living reflection of God.

Physical attributes of a capable wife are described in Proverbs 31:10-31 and are works to be praised. In relation to their spiritual capabilities and requirements, I believe women, like men, need direction. Spiritual attributes are far more worthy of praise than physical ones. A woman may have almost all the qualities listed in Proverbs 31, but if she does not perform them according to Godly fear, how can she possibly fulfil the purpose of her life? (Prov 31:30).  For example, if she is a good provider for her family's physical needs, while at the same time domineers over her husband ⁽⁵⁶⁾  (and other men perhaps), then she is nothing more than a hindrance.  In this state, she is of no more worth than a domestic animal.  In fact, if a woman also contends against her spouse's use of discipline when it is needed, how can she justifiably be praised for her domestic industry?

Conversely, what are women to do in relation to their husband's weaknesses?  Do they try to win over their husbands through chaste conduct and deep respect in fear of the Lord?  Or do they disparage their husbands to usurp their God-given authority?  Spiritually speaking, a woman is the "weaker vessel". ⁽⁵⁷⁾  Men should make due allowance for them, especially as they are more easily manipulated by unseen evil spirit forces of this "darkness"     whether those forces operate through other men, women, or directly.

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